Live Like No One Else…

Going through a divorce can be a nightmare on your finances.  This is after everything is done and when you are starting over with a new budget and all the bills and debts that were decided that were yours.  Attorneys paid, etc.  You are now your own person.  Everything has been divided.  When you are […]

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Professional Dater

When I was married I was in counseling and the counselor got me hooked onto journalling.  I had a lot of things to process at the time.   I remember how great it felt to focus in on one thought and get everything related to that thought out on paper.  The counselor complimented me on […]

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Need Advice?

I will have better posts soon.  Life is a little busy this week.  Life is a balancing act and I am having to lean away from things to keep all the balls in the air.  I will be working on a few posts in the coming days. I’d like to start a “Guys Perspective’ Column. […]

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Happy Being Alone

I am alone and for many that goes hand in hand with being lonely.  Not for me though.  Don’t get me wrong, I do eventually want a relationship.  But only when the time is right.  I will meet someone that will light that fire under me.  I could have met them already.  Who knows?  I’m […]

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Dating is Exhausting…

I was born in 1979 and grew I up in the 80s and 90s.  I remember the days before everyone had a cellphone.  To have a private conversation you needed to have a kitchen phone with a cord on it long enough to make it into the bathroom.   Even then you were hoping not […]

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Interview: With A Douchbag

I have old friend that is also out on these dating apps.  She was telling me about a guy that ghosted on her before Christmas and Reappeared before New Years.  She happened to be dating someone else at the time and refused a date with him.  They had been on a few dates before the […]

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Love: No Strings Attached

This has been one of the hardest topics I have ever had to cover.  Mostly because I am not sure I can properly define it.  I really don’t believe anyone has.  I thought I had it at one time or another but I was wrong there too.  But what are we really talking about here? […]

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Processing Grief, The Art of Letting Go

There are many things that cause grief but they all really mean the same thing, loss.  My divorce was final August 2016, almost 6 months ago as I write this.  Some people assume that my life when I was married was in some kind of turmoil that I escaped from.  Others ask me questions like It […]

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Dating IceBreaker Hello, Its Me

Greetings, salutations, or hello.  An introduction, an opener, a pickup line, whatever you want to call it. it is the beginning of a conversation.  Some of us are decent conversationalists making it easy to strike of a conversation with almost anyone not everyone. So you swiped in the appropriate direction and you got a match […]

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Complex Math and Simple Relationships

How about a math problem?  or Maybe a kids playground nursery rhyme?  Kinda strange to hear on a relationship blog right? PEMDAS OR… Please Excuse My Dear Aunt Sally OR… Parenthesis Exponents  Multiplication Division Addition Subtraction The above is what we were all taught on how the pictured math problem is solved.  The fundamentals of solving basic math problems.  There is a very specific way […]

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