Professional Dater

When I was married I was in counseling and the counselor got me hooked onto journalling.  I had a lot of things to process at the time.   I remember how great it felt to focus in on one thought and get everything related to that thought out on paper.  The counselor complimented me on […]

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Need Advice?

I will have better posts soon.  Life is a little busy this week.  Life is a balancing act and I am having to lean away from things to keep all the balls in the air.  I will be working on a few posts in the coming days. I’d like to start a “Guys Perspective’ Column. […]

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Not Looking for a Hookup?!?

Okay Ladies, we know you’re not looking for a hookup. You can stop wasting character space on your dating app profiles inserting that tag line. I have chatted with women these last months that have had that on their profiles, then after a day or two ask me directly when we were going to hook […]

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Second Chances Rematch

Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn’t know you left open.  John Barrymore I normally don’t post about dates, or conversations that turn into meets but there was an important lesson I learned that I would like to share.  This happened a few months ago. I was chatting with someone on Tinder she […]

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Dating IceBreaker Introductions

Greetings, salutations, or hello.  An introduction, an opener, a pickup line, what ever you want to call it. it is the beginning of a conversation.  Some of us are decent conversationalists making it easy to strike of a conversation with almost anyone not everyone. So you swiped in the appropriate direction and you got a […]

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Interview: Chat with Opposing Views

I was recently matched with someone that had something specific on their profile that had something specific on their profile that they were looking for.  More specifically something they weren’t.   I have no problem with someone knowing what they want or don’t want.  Know thyself.  It is a great thing.  I am also a […]

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Dating: Dos and Don’ts #1 First Meeting

I am going to try to start a new segment for dating tips.  Each segment will include a Do and a Don’t.  These will most of the time be of value but also be based upon ironies I have experienced online or on dates. Do… be on time when picking up or meeting up on […]

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“THE HOOKUP APP?!?!?!”

“THE HOOKUP APP?!?!?!” I am laughing as I type this of course.  Every person out there that has openly admitted that they have been on Tinder has heard that statement from every married, or single friend.  Before I was divorced admittedly I had said the same thing and looked at the person like they just […]

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