Professional Dater

When I was married I was in counseling and the counselor got me hooked onto journalling.  I had a lot of things to process at the time.   I remember how great it felt to focus in on one thought and get everything related to that thought out on paper.  The counselor complimented me on […]

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Date Night: Billiards Bowling and Darts

I want to have a weekly post about places to go.  This does not have to be a first date and I am going to attempt to review specific places of business. You don’t have to be any good at any of these things.  Simply being open to doing something different that what you’re used […]

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Interview: With A Douchbag

I have old friend that is also out on these dating apps.  She was telling me about a guy that ghosted on her before Christmas and Reappeared before New Years.  She happened to be dating someone else at the time and refused a date with him.  They had been on a few dates before the […]

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Date Night: Brewery Tour

I want to have a weekly post about places to go.  This does not have to be a first date and I am going to attempt to review specific places of business. You don’t have to like wine or beer to appreciate the history, how its made, and the effort and creativity it takes to […]

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Dos Don’ts: Who Pays

I am going to try to start a new segment for dating tips.  Each segment will include a Do and a Don’t.  The Dos are generally common sense and intended to be helpful.  The don’ts are to add a bit of irony and humor in opposing the do. Do… Be financially stable enough to date.  Going […]

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Second Chances Rematch

Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn’t know you left open.  John Barrymore I normally don’t post about dates, or conversations that turn into meets but there was an important lesson I learned that I would like to share.  This happened a few months ago. I was chatting with someone on Tinder she […]

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Date Night: Weekend Away

I want to have a weekly post about places to go.  This does not have to be a first date and I am going to attempt to review specific places of business. This post is not going to be for those first dates.  I was recently discussing this with a co-worker that was having trouble […]

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Date Night: Holiday Walks and Lights

I want to have a weekly post about places to go.  This does not have to be a first date and I am going to attempt to review specific places of business. If you live close to a major city you should be able to find a park, zoo, or some place that does holiday […]

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Dos Don’ts: Unexpected Adventures

I am going to try to start a new segment for dating tips.  Each segment will include a Do and a Don’t.  The Dos are generally common sense and intended to be helpful.  The don’ts are to add a bit of irony and humor in opposing the do. Do… Be prepared for a backup plan if […]

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Date Night: Dinner

I want to have a weekly post about places to go.  This does not have to be a first date and I am going to attempt to review specific places of business. I love food and I love trying new things.  Not everyone is like that.  Some people are very particular about what they eat, […]

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