Professional Dater

When I was married I was in counseling and the counselor got me hooked onto journalling.  I had a lot of things to process at the time.   I remember how great it felt to focus in on one thought and get everything related to that thought out on paper.  The counselor complimented me on […]

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Dating is Exhausting…

I was born in 1979 and grew I up in the 80s and 90s.  I remember the days before everyone had a cellphone.  To have a private conversation you needed to have a kitchen phone with a cord on it long enough to make it into the bathroom.   Even then you were hoping not […]

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Block Upon Request

I saw this meme online and I thoroughly enjoy questions like these that provoke thought.  This question speaks more to who I was and less to who I am.  Point of fact I did cut people out of my life without the request for the sake of my relationships.  I am neither proud nor have […]

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Dating IceBreaker Hello, Its Me

Greetings, salutations, or hello.  An introduction, an opener, a pickup line, whatever you want to call it. it is the beginning of a conversation.  Some of us are decent conversationalists making it easy to strike of a conversation with almost anyone not everyone. So you swiped in the appropriate direction and you got a match […]

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Dating IceBreakers Common Interests

Greetings, salutations, or hello.  An introduction, an opener, a pickup line, whatever you want to call it. it is the beginning of a conversation.  Some of us are decent conversationalists making it easy to strike of a conversation with almost anyone not everyone. So you swiped in the appropriate direction and you got a match […]

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Not Looking for a Hookup?!?

Okay Ladies, we know you’re not looking for a hookup. You can stop wasting character space on your dating app profiles inserting that tag line. I have chatted with women these last months that have had that on their profiles, then after a day or two ask me directly when we were going to hook […]

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Dating IceBreaker All I Want

Greetings, salutations, or hello.  An introduction, an opener, a pickup line, whatever you want to call it. it is the beginning of a conversation.  Some of us are decent conversationalists making it easy to strike of a conversation with almost anyone not everyone. So you swiped in the appropriate direction and you got a match […]

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Dos Don’ts: Who Pays

I am going to try to start a new segment for dating tips.  Each segment will include a Do and a Don’t.  The Dos are generally common sense and intended to be helpful.  The don’ts are to add a bit of irony and humor in opposing the do. Do… Be financially stable enough to date.  Going […]

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Dating IceBreaker Introductions

Greetings, salutations, or hello.  An introduction, an opener, a pickup line, what ever you want to call it. it is the beginning of a conversation.  Some of us are decent conversationalists making it easy to strike of a conversation with almost anyone not everyone. So you swiped in the appropriate direction and you got a […]

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