Processing Grief, The Art of Letting Go

There are many things that cause grief but they all really mean the same thing, loss.  My divorce was final August 2016, almost 6 months ago as I write this.  Some people assume that my life when I was married was in some kind of turmoil that I escaped from.  Others ask me questions like It […]

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Complex Math and Simple Relationships

How about a math problem?  or Maybe a kids playground nursery rhyme?  Kinda strange to hear on a relationship blog right? PEMDAS OR… Please Excuse My Dear Aunt Sally OR… Parenthesis Exponents  Multiplication Division Addition Subtraction The above is what we were all taught on how the pictured math problem is solved.  The fundamentals of solving basic math problems.  There is a very specific way […]

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An Itch That Can’t Be Scratched

You know that spot in the center of your back that is just out of reach?  You know the spot.  It is the one that always itches after you are all bundled up to go out in the cold and no matter how much you rub against the corner of the wall you just can’t […]

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Child Support: Stop Complaining

I have been on both sides of this topic.  In the early 2000s I was supposed to receive child support and I never did.  Now I happily, yes HAPPILY, pay child support.  Do you know what you never heard me do?  Complain! The following is NOT about the extreme cases the people that are truly […]

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Post-Divorce Adventures

So I made a minor site change.  I changed the tagline.  The tagline for a site should tell people what your site is all about.  When I did my research around the time I started this site I was warned by many articles that a blog or a website will evolve over time. I am […]

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Perfect Imperfections

One of the greatest insults I have ever I ever enjoyed was “People grow until they’re perfect it just took a lot longer for you.”  I’m 6’3″ so it took me a really long time.  We all have flaws and when we look at ourselves we usually see the things that we would want to […]

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Don’t Tell Me Everything

How many times have you had that deep conversation with a person until the wee hours of the morning?  It is great when that happens.  It feels good to connect with someone on a level beyond the superficial. I am not even referring to someone in a romantic sense.  Even on a strictly platonic level […]

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What are you looking for?

Oh wow.  How many times have I asked this question?  How many times have i been asked?  If I had access to every conversation I have had online or off I could categorize each answer to the level of seriousness of the relationship that one person is looking for.  But that wouldn’t be fair. It […]

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Not Looking for a Hookup?!?

Okay Ladies, we know you’re not looking for a hookup. You can stop wasting character space on your dating app profiles inserting that tag line. I have chatted with women these last months that have had that on their profiles, then after a day or two ask me directly when we were going to hook […]

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Inspiring Article…

It’s Time To Decide What Kind Of Life You Want And Live It – http://thoughtcatalog.com/rania-naim/2016/12/its-time-to-decide-what-kind-of-life-you-want-and-live-it/

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